Becoming An Ally
What makes a good ally? Life is hard and relationships are harder. Sometimes just being there to support someone is enough to change a bad day to an okay or great one.
The definition of Allyship is “An active, consistent, and arduous practice of unlearning and re-evaluation, in which a person in a position of privilege and power seeks to operate in solidarity with a marginalized group.” It's an opportunity for personal growth and community development, as everyone has the capacity to be an ally.”
I too am a member of a marginalized community. I sat for lunch with a great friend who is a member of the LGBTQIA+ community. Obviously, each letter has an accompanying definition, but doesn’t at all define the real person. Grab a cup of coffee, spend time with the person. Talk, but more importantly, “Listen!” I mean really listen. What’s important is understanding who that person is, and not ignorantly trying to assess who that person isn’t.


